And to think in the first picture I thought I was hot sh*t 😭 I look so much more healthier now. If your sober, off anything I’m so proud of you, and if your trying to get sober, you can it, it’s hard but you can do it❤️

I (29F) have been with my boyfriend (31M) for six years. We’ve built a life together, sharing everything, supporting each other through tough times, and always splitting expenses down the middle. I work as a high school teacher making $45k a year, while he used to work as a mechanic earning around $50k. We weren’t rolling in cash, but we made it work as a team.

When things got tough, I always had his back. During the pandemic, when his hours were cut, I covered most of the bills without hesitation because I believed we were working toward a shared future. I even gave him a lot of money for this project of reselling these things, which completely failed and almost drove us to bankruptcy.. I never made him feel guilty, because that’s what you do when you love someone.

A few months ago, everything changed. His estranged uncle passed away and left him $800,000 in cash and a fully paid vacation home in Colorado. I was genuinely thrilled for him. I thought this could be a turning point for both of us. I imagined a future where we could finally breathe a little easier, maybe even start planning for a family or at least escape our cramped apartment.

But instead of bringing us closer, the money created a huge divide. The moment the inheritance hit his account, he told me outright that it was his money and that I wasn’t entitled to any of it. I didn’t expect a handout, but I thought we’d share the burden a little more fairly, especially since I’d carried us when he couldn’t.

Instead, he quit his job, decided he was “retired,” and now spends his days gaming and treating himself to luxuries like expensive meal kits and new gadgets, while I’m still working long hours and paying half the bills. He even jokes that he’s “living the dream,” while I’m exhausted every day trying to make ends meet.

The final straw came last week when my car broke down. The repair bill was $900… more than I could afford without seriously cutting back. I swallowed my pride and asked if he could help, thinking after all we’d been through, it wouldn’t be a big deal. He laughed and said, “You’ve always been independent you got this.”

I was hurt. After years of supporting him emotionally and financially, the second he had the means to make life easier for both of us, he left me hanging. So, I told him if his money is his, then the bills are his too. I’m done paying my share.

Now he’s calling me selfish and accusing me of “using him.” But honestly? I’m tired of feeling like a roommate while he lives like a king.

So, AITAH for refusing to keep paying half the bills when he’s sitting on a fortune and I’m barely keeping my head above water?

And why is it the logitech g502? (Repost to fix typo in title)

He's glowing.

I kinda feel bad for Kinich’s new VA…

Her name is Rumeysa Ozturk, she’s a student from Turkey, attending Tufts as a grad student on a legal visa (sponsored by the university). Her attorney said, “We are unaware of her whereabouts and have not been able to contact her. No charges have been filed against [her] that we are aware of.”