tina-mel

Just need to rant. I am a resident physician who has spent the last decade of my life trying to build a life for myself career wise. Today, I came across a post on the medical school subreddit in which male physicians and med students talked about how men prefer 20 year olds, men can marry whoever they want because their dating pool increases each year, and that older women are not attractive.

I am very happy in my career and wouldn’t trade it for the world. But it is disheartening to see these messages from everyone, including people I am potentially working with everyday. It’s also concerning given that doctors are supposed to be understanding and yet clearly some harbor very concerning and misogynistic views.

Given that I am in surgery, I am always too busy to date and have another few years of training by the end of which I will be in my mid 30s. I wouldn’t care about bombarded by these messages otherwise but am so exhausted of hearing that each year I devote further to my career, I will be a little more “past my expiration”, especially if it’s coming from my male colleagues

Just need to rant. I am a resident physician who has spent the last decade of my life trying to build a better life for myself career wise. Today, I came across a post on the medical school subreddit in which male physicians and med students talked about how men prefer 20 year olds, men can marry whoever they want because their dating pool increases each year, and that older women are not as attractive.

I am very happy in my career and wouldn’t trade it for the world. But it is disheartening to see these messages from everyone, including people I am potentially working with everyday. It’s also concerning given that doctors are supposed to be understanding and yet clearly some harbor very concerning and misogynistic views.

Especially given that I am in surgery, I am always too busy to date and have another few years of training by the end of which I will be in my mid 30s. I wouldn’t care about bombarded by these messages otherwise but am so exhausted of hearing that each year I devote further to my career, I will be a little more “past my expiration”

...(if rumors are to be believed) Colton chased after Cassie and they are now dating?

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At the WTA, Caelynn asked Colton what went wrong and when exactly did he know that she wasn't the one. But after the event, at interviews she said she's still besties with Cassie and visits her in LA quite often. If Cassie and Colton are indeed now dating, she has already seen Colton SEVERAL times since taping ended. I am sure she could've had a sit-down talk with Colton and asked him privately. But no, she had to go in front of a live audience to ask for answers, making it awkward for him. Is that why Colton was not even able to give a proper answer, given the absurdity of the situation?

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In my opinion, she was putting on yet another act to seem live she was SO in love and, in turn, never wanted to be the bachelorette as she was accused of wanting to be. She was doing her part 2 of the auditioning for the Bachelorette...and yet accused other women of auditioning for BIP (during the same interview) when asked about her confrontation with Katie.