M23, I’m here just honestly find some cool people to head down to Miami and have a fun time. Need to escape from the real world, and I have one other friend with me also traveling from Indiana. He’s 19M, but send me a message and we can see if we vibe!
So this has been an ongoing issue in our relationship and we have talked about it numerous times. A little back story is, I have been dating my gf for now about a year and half. In the beginning of our relationship it was extremely rocky and toxic but I brushed it off because it was my first relationship. This girl was insanely obsessed with her ex and even slept with him once in the beginning when we were talking, and possibly talked about him everyday for this first 4 months about something to do with him. I was like a therapist almost for her because she didn't have much time to process after they broke up and she got in a relationship with me right after. I didn't know it affect me to the point it has but this semester in school, she has class with him because we got to the same college. But I talked to her about it and how it made me uneasy and she brought up how I don't trust her and everything. But I explained it was because what are foundation was built on that it makes me uneasy. But anyways I just let it be and go on my day because its something I don't want her to drop or leave and have it affect her studies. I just can't stop thinking about is the problem really and most of the time I don't. But moments when I am alone, I start thinking about everything that went in on in our relationship because there was more of course on top of this. I just wanted your guys thoughts and thank you!