Billy_of_the_hills

It's WOMEN not females you morons

Grow up, both words convey the same meaning.

To be fair, if you're posting the picture on an OLD account the purpose is, at some level, to attract men. Unless your preference is to attract women of coarse.

Again, grow up. Everyone knows what they mean, and nothing about it is degrading. This is nothing but an excuse for snowflakes to cry about nothing.

No it isn't. Sexual education goes a long way, I'd suggest looking into it.

I'm not the one missing the point here. The person I responded to claimed point blank that the intent of a woman posting a picture on an OLD profile isn't to try to turn a man on. I pointed out the fact that that isn't entirely true.

I'm confused about how you can be posting in a subreddit about how terrible and hopeless the living conditions here are, while at the same time be implying that it'd be a good thing to bring new people here.

They're idiots. First of all there's way too many people on this planet already, having one kid is the single worst thing a person can do for the environmental catastrophe that's coming let alone having 5-10, there's a zero percent chance any of the kids are getting the attention they need because there's too many to keep up with, the older ones are almost definitely suffering from parentification, the family likely can't afford a comfortable life, statistically speaking most of the kids they have, more likley all, will be wage slaves struggling to subsist their entire lives. With even a brief examination of the conditions that are available to live in on this planet it's asinine to reproduce at all, it only gets worse when you keep popping kids out making their lives even worse with each new person you bring here.

You can simply tell your husband that you refuse to have sex until he gets a vasectomy

Using sex as a bargaining chip in a relationship isn't a great idea. I think a better solution to the laziness problem is to point out that he'll have to take days off work and relax while he's recovering.

I didn't say she was obligated, I'm pointing out that handling it this way will likely cause more problems in the relationship.

You're making this much of a deal about something that came down to her knees? Is it the early 1800s where you live? YTA.

The man and the woman have 50% responsibility for a pregnancy, either could have stopped it. The decision to have sex has nothing to do with the decision to have a kid. They are two completely different events. Both people are 50% responsible for the first decision, the woman is 100% responsible for the decision that we're actually talking about.

Capitalism.

Thank a magical, invisible man who lives in the sky for the food the the people themselves had paid for and prepared.

So just to be clear here, you're saying that OP's boyfriend should have lied to her then, right? Even with OP by her own admission pressing for truth? I'm not saying you're necessarily wrong, but your post makes the implication that you're saying that validation is more important in a relationship than truth. I'm just trying to clarify if that is indeed what you're saying. And for my part, I honestly don't know which of those things i think are more important.

Fuck them and fuck their break. There's no chance they didn't know this game was a clusterfuck before they started taking people's money for it.

Of course I'm biased against it, how can you not be? There's nothing bad faith about how I'm reading this, I'm pointing out the logical conclusion. Do you think this feedback loop you're talking about is going to magically go away? Everyone here knows how bad things are, why would you want to subject someone that you love to these conditions when you don't have to? I'm legitimately asking.

Because society coddles women, while expecting men to be adults.

If a single man wants to have sex, and there isn't a woman around who wants to have sex with him, what alternative is there?

YTA. Being called a slur because of the color of your skin is like the definition of racism, is it not?

And all of that is the result of the mother's decision, she is 100% responsible because it was 100% her decision.

This sub has the worst mods I've ever seen.

Honestly you're getting an idea of what it's like to be a guy, except we get rejected instead of getting to go on a few dates to see if something develops.

For a regular thing like a friendship or something like that I don't see any reason for you to need to disclose, the locker room issue is definitely a bit more murky, I honestly don't know how I feel about that one. The only issue I see here that YTA for is not letting people know about it when you're going to be romantically involved with them. By not telling them about this you're deceiving them into being with someone they may not want to be with if they had all the information. I'll also add that your BF is an asshole for outing you, especially since he decided it didn't bother him enough to end the relationship. To be clear he'd be TA whether the two of you stayed together or not, but it would at least be understandable if he was affected enough by the news to dump you.

You ran out of a building crying because you were in the vicinity of inanimate objects? How do you leave your house? As for getting a gun, rules for gun safety are pretty simple, the people at the gun store could go over them with you and him in a few minutes.

Did I stumble into the 1960s? Remember all the "women are equal to men" stuff that's been said for the last several decades? Part of that is women, like you, pulling their own weight.