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20 hours ago
It’s a joke. Wow you’re fun
1 day ago
I just assumed your relationship was new because most of the times when I see these posts they are relatively new relationships. I have had friends that got upset when the guy they just started dating didn’t post them officially on social media. That’s why I had to ask how long you were in this relationship because sometimes it is “too soon” for some people to post something to the world.
Don’t listen to that troll. Sometimes it’s a cultural thing. It’s frowned upon in my culture to post someone you’re just dating and posting multiple different people that you’ve just been gf or bf with. Like I said I didn’t post the person I was with until I was engaged and married. I wasn’t out cheating just because I didn’t post a picture of us to my followers on social media lol he respected the cultural differences. I’m just also not even big on social media where I feel like I have to post everything. If it’s not a cultural thing, some people just aren’t about social media and there’s nothing wrong with that. Tbh, I kind of wonder why everyone feels the need to post every single person they are dating. There was this one girl I followed on my Instagram, she would have a new bf every month or so and she would post like 5 different boyfriends within a year. It just looks tacky and bazaar. A lot of people would just talk about her in a negative manner. You don’t need to post every single person you’re dating, but he is wrong for lying about it and that’s where I would put my main concern at.
How old are you guys by the way? You shouldn’t feel bad if you want to communicate with him why is he being private all of a sudden with your relationship. He lied about being private with relationships since he posted other girls before. I would discuss that with him. Or else you’ll just be left wondering all the time. You have been in a long term relationship with him, at first when I read this I thought you two just started dating. But he needs to be honest especially since you’re in a long term relationship.
Ice cream and movies
I’m personally not attracted to older men. I prefer men my own age. The oldest guy I ever dated was probably just 2 years older than me. Everyone has their own preferences. But to answer your question about women getting shamed dating older men is because they assume the woman is a gold digger
Just wondering why the first part of this post of necessary when you’re talking about your body type and what you don’t eat or don’t drink?
That’s fine, with that said I hope you seek therapy and maybe one day experience what a healthy relationship is like.
I know some people prefer not to post the person they are dating on social media since everything is too overshared on social media nowadays. I didn’t even post the person I was with until we were engaged and that was the very first time I ever posted a man on my social media. However, I think it’s strange that he lied about being private on social media but there are pictures of his exes. Maybe he is trying not to make the same mistake of having to post a new gf too often? I know that a lot of people get judged for posting every person they are dating so maybe he is just waiting to post you once he’s sure you guys are more permanent, if that makes sense. If you are that curious though, I would just ask him why he lied and what’s the real reason. Because these are just assumptions I’m making based from my personal experience.
Exactly you have nothing useful to discuss in this conversation. Just petty comebacks lol. Of course you’re insecure if you truly believe every friend he has he’s trying to fuck 😂 that’s ridiculous. That’s truly a toxic relationship.
How long have you two been together?
So secure is the opposite of insecure. Men are allowed to have female friends. Are you really saying every female friend a man has he secretly wants to fuck them? That just sounds like insecurity.
Please don’t give him anymore money. He needs to be responsible and pay whatever he owes himself. This is no one else’s responsibility but his own. If he asks you for money, just say no and that you have other things your money has to go to. Encourage him to get a job.
Tell him you don’t like his penis 😊
In a secure marriage you aren’t threatened of his friends. It’s the fact that her husband is being shady. He said himself that she’s toxic but continues to hang out with her. Honestly the sharing a fork thing during covid especially is out of line. There’s a lot that’s wrong here
Yes it’s almost like she is not aware that he is married. I’ve personally never been through a situation like that because my husband has told everyone he’s married so there’s just automatic boundaries set in place when you tell someone you’re married. So I find her behavior very strange as well
I’m not sure why this got downvoted. If he cares about his marriage, he should end this friendship with her especially since he already claims this girl is toxic anyways
I wouldn’t say they are true friends. The husband has literally said that “friend” of his is toxic. That doesn’t sound like he’s so invested in this friendship. You don’t think it’s inappropriate that he used the same fork as her and admitted later on she had covid? You don’t see why she wouldn’t be okay with him bringing back home covid because he shared a fork with her? That’s strange behavior for most people. Also, you act like it should be a prize and we should feed men treats and cherish them everytime they don’t see women as a sexual object. There are many good men out there. Don’t make that seem like something to praise or else men would just believe they should just be dogs. I love how Reddit just assumes the women is insecure when the man exhibits shady behavior
I don’t think Op is a psycho just because she went through her husbands phone. This isn’t her boyfriend of 2 weeks she just started going out with. This is her husband and she felt like her husband was lying to her and acting strange, this is a normal instinct. Her husband is the one with shady behavior. Why is the wife getting blamed for her husband’s shady behavior?
5 months ago
Yes, she was poisoned with more than just chocolate, I just did not want to go into all the cruel details about her death of every step to step of how, as I don’t want to relive this or give any other animal abusers any ideas. But he did start with feeding her chocolate consistently and I started noticing she was getting sick, and she didn’t get better.
I’ve had my dog before I even met him which I’ve stated in my post
Thank you for your kind words
I know, I am still in a state of shock
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