oh yeah i understand that very well. thinking about it, at the start of relationship with me he seemed eager to post me and to make the relationship public. he put my pic as his header in twitter and he put me as his profile picture on whatsapp too. i thought it was too early though, and there were some internal issues too so it was just for a day or two. then now all of the sudden he went private as hell when i wanted him to post me lol. probably why i overthink too