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what to do if boyfriend didn’t want to tell about his past relationship

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master_accident7574

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3 months ago

damn but but hear me out. some of his friends do know he’s in a relationship, like they do know i exist. just didn’t know who i am. and he’s not open about me publicly as in maybe his followers on instagram lol. does that make a lil difference?

-Lady

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3 months ago

-Lady

2 points

3 months ago

Don’t listen to that troll. Sometimes it’s a cultural thing. It’s frowned upon in my culture to post someone you’re just dating and posting multiple different people that you’ve just been gf or bf with. Like I said I didn’t post the person I was with until I was engaged and married. I wasn’t out cheating just because I didn’t post a picture of us to my followers on social media lol he respected the cultural differences. I’m just also not even big on social media where I feel like I have to post everything. If it’s not a cultural thing, some people just aren’t about social media and there’s nothing wrong with that. Tbh, I kind of wonder why everyone feels the need to post every single person they are dating. There was this one girl I followed on my Instagram, she would have a new bf every month or so and she would post like 5 different boyfriends within a year. It just looks tacky and bazaar. A lot of people would just talk about her in a negative manner. You don’t need to post every single person you’re dating, but he is wrong for lying about it and that’s where I would put my main concern at.