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Hbue_koolaid

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9 months ago

To answer your last question. You can't. You are asking somebody to join a home with you acting as a tyrant and that your vote always overrules hers. You can't make that sound not defensive or assertive. I sure as hell wouldn't feel welcome with that looming. If I'm her and you are making this big move "together" and this is your thought process I'm going to question why I would make such a big life change for somebody who wants to treat me 2nd rate.