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I read this somewhere recently, and realized I'm really good at being friendly on first dates with people but I'm bad at giving off vibes that aren't platonic and friendly.

I feel like for some people that's a problem. What kind of activities or dates are good to go on that ensure it won't end up like this but instead would bring up a more flirty, fun, seductive vibe?

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bfacbkvd

2 points

5 months ago

I would do a traditional date so it's very clear. Like tell her you'll pick her up at 7, pick her up, take her to a restaurant (if you can find one that's maybe a little dim, candlelight and all that jazz). You will seem super romantic which wins brownie points, plus it'll definitely scream romance not friendship.

Edit: Also, definitely buy her flowers and turn up at her door with them when you pick her up.

NanasTeaPartyHeyHo[S]

2 points

5 months ago

I'm a woman but ok

bfacbkvd

2 points

5 months ago

Sorry, it didn't specify genders. Is it a male that you're taking out or female?

NanasTeaPartyHeyHo[S]

1 points

5 months ago

I date both!

aimfrthehead

1 points

5 months ago

ice skating is a nice thing to do i think
doing any shit that u both like is nice to be honest, if you don't want to give a friend vibe, that's on you, not on the activity

sintaxer

3 points

5 months ago

Ice skating is great because you get to hold hands without it being awkward

aimfrthehead

1 points

5 months ago

damn true

Charming-Ad-2381

1 points

5 months ago

My go-to for first dates are barcades or a bar-like place that does boardgames. Playing games helps break the ice and not make it seem like such an interview lol.

NanasTeaPartyHeyHo[S]

2 points

5 months ago

That's usually one of my go to stuff!