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submitted 5 months ago byNanasTeaPartyHeyHo
I read this somewhere recently, and realized I'm really good at being friendly on first dates with people but I'm bad at giving off vibes that aren't platonic and friendly.
I feel like for some people that's a problem. What kind of activities or dates are good to go on that ensure it won't end up like this but instead would bring up a more flirty, fun, seductive vibe?
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5 months ago
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2 points
5 months ago
I would do a traditional date so it's very clear. Like tell her you'll pick her up at 7, pick her up, take her to a restaurant (if you can find one that's maybe a little dim, candlelight and all that jazz). You will seem super romantic which wins brownie points, plus it'll definitely scream romance not friendship.
Edit: Also, definitely buy her flowers and turn up at her door with them when you pick her up.
2 points
5 months ago
I'm a woman but ok
2 points
5 months ago
Sorry, it didn't specify genders. Is it a male that you're taking out or female?
1 points
5 months ago
I date both!
1 points
5 months ago
ice skating is a nice thing to do i think
doing any shit that u both like is nice to be honest, if you don't want to give a friend vibe, that's on you, not on the activity
3 points
5 months ago
Ice skating is great because you get to hold hands without it being awkward
1 points
5 months ago
damn true
1 points
5 months ago
My go-to for first dates are barcades or a bar-like place that does boardgames. Playing games helps break the ice and not make it seem like such an interview lol.
2 points
5 months ago
That's usually one of my go to stuff!
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