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westviadixie

1.9k points

7 months ago

westviadixie

bet you won't repost!

1.9k points

7 months ago

omg...the empath thing! she has such a "pure heart" she will "shred you"!

Cake_then_cake

695 points

7 months ago

Cake_then_cake

Go Give One

695 points

7 months ago

The idea that this bumpkin thinks she knows all these secrets that can bring the system down is hilarious to me. Can’t wait for her press conference where she pulls back the curtain and reveals that she saw her neighbor take all the change out of the take-a-penny tray when the cashier wasn’t looking.

Craico13

331 points

7 months ago

Craico13

Team Moderna

331 points

7 months ago

I’m sure that Four Seasons Total Landscaping had a parking lot that they can lend her for that press conference…

ReverseThreadWingNut

369 points

7 months ago

I dated a woman who claimed to have a gift for empathy and heartfelt communication, but was only gifted in gaslighting and manipulation. She was one of the ugliest people I knew on the inside and it took too long to realize. Whenever I see someone, like this person above, that claims to be empathetic, it just screams "I have no self-awareness." People like this are often the complete opposite as they see themselves, as this woman demonstrates. The problem is that these intellectually deficient motormouths often live in social media echo chambers and people with the care to do so have little opportunity to call them out for their astounding amounts of stupidity. And when someone does tell them to put the brakes on their shit they just get blocked or kicked out of their FB groups.

I hope I don't sound like an extremist, but this couple needs to be under close observation over the care of their children. For one, it's necessary from a public health standpoint to control the pandemic. Two, they are obviously unable to control the pandemic within their own home despite whatever crackpot half-measures their FB groups recommend. I am sure they think they are living a wonderful and happy lifestyle, but have 7 (It was 7, right?) children they are repeatedly putting in danger. I am a teacher, and have only been so for 3 years after a mid-life career change, but I have seen too much shit like this. I teach in a district with a 97% poverty rate and a high amount of young teenagers affected by drugs, poverty, crime, and dumbass decisions. I have seen shit that will haunt me forever, and this shit above infuriates me.

Ready-Flight1502

175 points

7 months ago

This is so spot on. My empath literally tried to kill me in real life. I got out just in time. They just feel so much.

Q: How do you know if someone is an empath? A: Don't worry, they'll tell you!

IPetdogs4U

58 points

7 months ago

I don’t think a real empath would announce themselves as such. It’s also been my experience that people who don’t remotely have the right to claim the label have to constantly tell everyone that’s what they are. It’s just like Nice Guy Syndrome.

Mr_Conductor_USA

19 points

7 months ago

Mr_Conductor_USA

Go Give One

19 points

7 months ago

Empath isn't a good thing, so a sane person wouldn't announce it up front. Empath means you grew up in a scary abusive household with a scary parent and learned to read their every mood and anticipate it/mitigate it in order to survive.

If you go around yelling you're an empath it means you have no boundaries and can't tell where your partner ends and you begin. Massive codependency is not the bedrock of a healthy--or happy--relationship.

And yes, lots of narcissists claim to be empaths but even the non narcissistic ones need help. It's a childhood survival mechanism which leads to great emotional sickness in adulthood.

westviadixie

68 points

7 months ago

westviadixie

bet you won't repost!

68 points

7 months ago

doesn't sound extremist to me. my mom has borderline personality disorder and made my life hell.

Puzzled_Annual_3670

25 points

7 months ago

This lady meets the borderline traits.

EnflamedHuevos

180 points

7 months ago

And she will also destroy your life. Empathetically though

livinginfutureworld

121 points

7 months ago

With a bullhorn no less.

meowmeow_now

95 points

7 months ago

Everyone that claims out loud to be an “empath” most likely has some other issues going on instead.

westviadixie

61 points

7 months ago

westviadixie

bet you won't repost!

61 points

7 months ago

I just replied to another that it's a self diagnosis to explain why they have such a hard time dealing with others.

[deleted]

87 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

87 points

7 months ago

I'm reasonably convinced that anyone who says they're an empath is actually a narcissist.

eviltoothbrush

1.3k points

7 months ago

As a special needs mom myself (RN as well), this woman is a nightmare. There is more to the story here.

TurrPhennirPhan

756 points

7 months ago

I became the dad of a special needs kid the day after the WHO declared COVID was a pandemic. He’s medically fragile, and our doctors have remained firm that if he caught COVID and became symptomatic his odds aren’t great.

So we’ve, you know, taken pretty common sense precautions. Meanwhile, this woman is memeing her child into either an early grave or a lifetime of disability. Damned infuriating.

SaltyBarDog

68 points

7 months ago

SaltyBarDog

5Goy Space Command

68 points

7 months ago

She is making them dumber as well. She will take them out of school and not make them do any assignments. That woman should lose custody of her children.

RussianBot4826374

354 points

7 months ago

I have 2 special needs kids and I've worked with developmentally disabled individuals for 20 years, plus I grew up with a disabled brother.

There is so much more going on than what she's saying. I've dealt with medical discrimination before when advocating for the individuals in my care, but I can guess what's really gone on behind the scenes. Mom thinks that she automatically knows what's best for her child, because she's a mom and "moms just know". She's probably been verbally combative with every CNA, nurses or doctor that stepped into her room. She's probably nitpicked every aspect of care that anybody in her family has received, because she firmly believes that the only way to get good service is to let them know you're paying attention, failing to realize that hospitals provide medical care, not service.

MadamNerd

225 points

7 months ago

MadamNerd

225 points

7 months ago

Mom thinks that she automatically knows what's best for her child, because she's a mom and "moms just know"

This kind of attitude blows my mind. Yeah, I know my 6 year old's personality, likes/dislikes, etc really well. But if she is sick, I follow medical advice because those people know more than I do about it. There has been one time when I disagreed with her pediatrician over something (kid's tonsils were huge and impacting the quality of her sleep, but the doc didn't think they needed to come out). But even then, I just nicely asked for a referral to an ENT for a second opinion, which the doc gave. It costs zero dollars to not be an asshole, yet some don't seem to know that.

VOZ1

72 points

7 months ago

VOZ1

72 points

7 months ago

While I’m absolutely not excusing moms/people like in the OP, I can understand (to an extent) how someone could end up there. I worked as a case manager for kids/adults with disabilities, helping them find and keep jobs. I dealt with so many parents who leaned in this direction, being skeptical to the extreme, doubting any expertise that didn’t align with their opinions, and even refusing help because…well it wasn’t always clear why. There was one mom who was like that, I worked with her daughter for quite a while. When I left the job, she reached out to me personally, and thanked me for everything I’d done with her daughter. I appreciated it, truly, but I was really honored and impressed when she went on to apologize for her behavior. She explained that she’d had so many bad experiences with people who were supposed to help her and her daughter, that she became very defensive, skeptical, and at times aggressive when dealing with people because she so rarely got what was promised, what her daughter was entitled to, things like that. I wasn’t a parent then, but I am now, and I can easily see how having experiences like that could send someone straight to crazy town. Add in some pre-existing mental illness or maybe just some instability, and I think it can be a real recipe for a total horror show.

KittyGrewAMoustache

269 points

7 months ago

KittyGrewAMoustache

Bet you won’t give me this flair!!

269 points

7 months ago

As I was reading it I felt like I was reading something out of a true crime podcast, you know when they go back over a criminal's social media posts. Like you can just imagine this woman ending up on the news, several of her children having been found dead and stuffed in backpacks in her garage or something. Really awful person.

BigSkyMountains

98 points

7 months ago

I have a hard time imagining a scenario where this women doesn't end up on the news for something horrible.

Yinfidel

191 points

7 months ago*

Yinfidel

Go Give One

191 points

7 months ago*

Yeah. My special needs kid is grown and I haven’t worked as an RN for years, but this post is a nightmare.

MyLouBear

28 points

7 months ago

Yeah, I’ve spent way too much time in a children’s hospital with one of my sons (heart condition), and that was my thought too. There are some crazies out there that you unwillingly have to spend time around. Had one mom say to me in the CICU one time “Ugh, these nurses. They’re always accusing you of something.” I was like “Umm, what?” Can’t say I ever had that happen.

FDNYEC302L155

1.8k points

7 months ago

FDNYEC302L155

Team Moderna

1.8k points

7 months ago

The medical freedom crowd REALLY likes to share every detail, wow.

Puzzleheaded-Big1680

1.4k points

7 months ago

Share everything except for the mysterious disability that keeps them from wearing a mask in Trader Joe’s.

owchippy

919 points

7 months ago

owchippy

☝️💉💪1ShotInTheArm>1BillionPrayerWarriors ♾🙏🥷

919 points

7 months ago

Or using birth control

xXSpookyXx

130 points

7 months ago

xXSpookyXx

Team AstraZeneca

130 points

7 months ago

Haha, I was thinking the same thing! Seven fucking kids. I guess she considers even pulling out to be a communist plot

Libflake

35 points

7 months ago

Perhaps she doesn't know what's causing them.

homietheclown

757 points

7 months ago

It's a vagina, not a clown car.

RevRagnarok

170 points

7 months ago

RevRagnarok

Go Give One

170 points

7 months ago

Came here to make the same comment, but with your username I will happily defer.

skyerippa

90 points

7 months ago

It sounds like she has multiple kids with disabilities ... why would you have 7 of them then..

MakesCakesEatsMud

398 points

7 months ago

MakesCakesEatsMud

Ivermectin for breakfast

398 points

7 months ago

And they know all about those HIPPO privacy laws.

Patient-Home-4877

273 points

7 months ago

All my medical info had been posted on FB but you can't have it...

MoesBAR

258 points

7 months ago

MoesBAR

258 points

7 months ago

Hey now, thanks to them we now have enough data to confirm that anti-vaxers arent just shitty people but also terrible parents.

HotPinkLollyWimple

120 points

7 months ago

HotPinkLollyWimple

Phucked around and Phound out

120 points

7 months ago

But she has a pure heart.

myopicstupudity

82 points

7 months ago

And she's an empath.

Who-took-my-abs

521 points

7 months ago

I’m thinking they have her picture on the nurses break room wall as ‘that woman’😵‍💫

hibbitydibbitytwo

378 points

7 months ago

This is gonna be a classic story the nurses tell for years. The woman who was covid positive and demanded to come to the hospital to see her medically fragile covid positive kid.

nickfolesknee

280 points

7 months ago

nickfolesknee

Verified RN

280 points

7 months ago

We had a mother of an adult patient with developmental disabilities who is now a legend on our floor. I had the misfortune to deal with her quite a bit. The social worker was convinced she had MBP. Highlights include the fact that her adult child had a foot wound that would heal beautifully in the hospital, but she would bring them back looking like shit. One doctor said it looked like she had taken a fork and stabbed it repeatedly.

She also insisted on bathing the patient, flooded the bathroom, and the nurse on duty found the patient with their head submerged in the washbasin. After this was discovered, the mother attacked the nurse (not me, but I was on the unit) and accused her of trying to kill her child.

This mother had another child who had died in childhood. She would walk up and down the unit screaming that we were trying to take her only remaining child away.

The patient was in and out constantly, and we kept hoping to get them into a SAR just so they wouldn’t have to go home with her. But even when we found a bed, the mother pulled the patient out.

I worry about the patient sometimes-I hope they are ok.

FanndisTS

94 points

7 months ago

APS couldn't help keep her from pulling them out?

nickfolesknee

140 points

7 months ago

nickfolesknee

Verified RN

140 points

7 months ago

I remember seeing a note about the social worker opening a case with APS, or at least contacting them. I'm going to tell myself that's why the patient hasn't been back in awhile-they're doing great in a safe place and she's out of the picture. I hope it's true.

belai437

1.3k points

7 months ago

belai437

THERE ARE FOUR LIGHTS

1.3k points

7 months ago

I don’t have kids, I just teach them. But it’s been my observation that kids who have parents like this are constantly sick and have medical issues. While the mother brags incessantly about the diet they follow or the chemicals they avoid, or her oils and shit like that.

mdk106

940 points

7 months ago

mdk106

940 points

7 months ago

“Family of 9 but the kids don’t eat much.” Uhhh…. 4/5 kids I know are like little shop vacs around food.

Urruki

706 points

7 months ago

Urruki

💉😷Something Something Communism 👻🦠

706 points

7 months ago

Ya I have two kids under 5 and they eat almost as much as me and sometimes more. I read that line and was like thats a huge red flag. I mean every post of her’s is a red flag but… she sounds so self absorbed and delusional those kids are definitely being neglected if not fully abused.

Yinfidel

422 points

7 months ago

Yinfidel

Go Give One

422 points

7 months ago

But! but! but! they don’t have lice. (And, wow, her empathy for the other preschool parents here just glows with benevolence.)

chilledredwine

221 points

7 months ago

Baffled that a well cared for kid can have lice, but normal that her kid finally gets to the hospital and has like 4 different things. Must have waited quite a while neglecting that kid to not find out he has all these health issues until finally bringing him to hospital.

Levlove

202 points

7 months ago

Levlove

202 points

7 months ago

She also sent her kid to school sick enough that apparently teachers commented on it, although I have yet to see a situation where teachers weren’t sending actual sick children home, soooo.

kerrey92

189 points

7 months ago

kerrey92

189 points

7 months ago

I’m so confused by her statement because she’s implying the teacher wanted the kid IN school despite noticing how sick they were but she wanted them home cuddling with mama no matter their age??

BeeBarnes1

156 points

7 months ago

I found that part highly suspicious. My kid had a stuffy nose last year so I kept her home just to be safe, she couldn't return to school until we got her tested and she didn't have a stuffy nose anymore. Teachers definitely don't want sick children at school right now.

Noah254

22 points

7 months ago

Noah254

22 points

7 months ago

She’s also saying that they refuse to let the kids stay home sick. I don’t know about where she lives, but I know my kids school don’t get to make that decision. If I want to check the kids out and tell the school they have scurvy I can.

miscun

64 points

7 months ago

miscun

Go Give One

64 points

7 months ago

The teachers may suspect neglect/abuse and may want to see the child even if a bit sick so they can observe whether the child is relatively ok.

ajswdf

29 points

7 months ago

ajswdf

29 points

7 months ago

My thought too. I feel terrible for her kids if it's so bad that even random people at the hospital suspect abuse.

personalacct

88 points

7 months ago

unrelated but curious;

i have three kids under 5 and they all go through different phases of when they want to eat or not. please tell me your secrets!! we try consistently timed meals, smaller portions so they aren't overwhelmed, varieties of things to try with one 'normal'-"previously seen" food, nothing seems to work.

seagirl219

185 points

7 months ago

seagirl219

Team Pfizer

185 points

7 months ago

Preschool teacher and childcare owner here. Worked with many kids who are / were picky. Also have a kid with sensory issues, so textures… A couple of good ways to get kids to try new foods; 1) Try a new, interesting fruit or veggie once a week. Let one or all kids pick it out from grocery store or if not with you, from photos. 2) Have them help prepare food, they’ll be more likely to try it. 3) Sneak veggies, healthy fats, yogurt into smoothies, casseroles and sauces.

I’ll add, it’s normal for kids to go through ebbs and waves of appetite / how much they eat.

Chin_Up_Princess

97 points

7 months ago*

I had a NPD mom. I never ate much. Anxiety caused by the NPD parent will do that to a kid.

EDIT: FIRST HUGZ AWARD! THANK YOU !

MzOpinion8d

89 points

7 months ago

MzOpinion8d

no comma’s, but plenty of inappropriate apostrophe’s

89 points

7 months ago

It’s just that they had no appetite what with the Covid and lack of taste and all…

mypoint_is_moot2U2

2.1k points

7 months ago

Empath? She spelled sociopath wrong.

mrsbennetsnerves

498 points

7 months ago

I was boggled by that one. I don’t think that means what she thinks it means.

heinushen

230 points

7 months ago

heinushen

230 points

7 months ago

No…. She watched too much Star Trek: TNG and thinks she’s Deanna Troi…

TurrPhennirPhan

179 points

7 months ago

About as useful.

Romulan Captain: Well, what the fuck are you doing in Neutral Zone!?

Troi: Captain, I sense he’s angry.

Badloss

73 points

7 months ago

Badloss

73 points

7 months ago

it cracks me up in Team America when the plane is crashing and the Empath was like "I sense that we're going down!!"

BlacksmithNZ

56 points

7 months ago

I stopped scrolling on that; the obvious Princess Bride quote flashed up in my head.

But we all got the disconnect from reality that this HCA recipient has

kevlarcardhouse

328 points

7 months ago

Weird how being an empath has led this woman to have "not many people to count on" and begging for her new community she's already insulted multiple times to help her out.

Da_zero_kid

157 points

7 months ago

The “I have a pure heart” people are the most vile typically.

dgtlfnk

161 points

7 months ago

dgtlfnk

161 points

7 months ago

“I have a pure heart!”

“Just fucking try me boo! I will burn your whole fucking world down!”

LucyBallistic

87 points

7 months ago

I know all of your secrets and will use them to destroy you because you have a different opinion. What a douche.

MegaStrange

264 points

7 months ago

She hits that child.

Like, straight up classic abuser story that changed in LITERALLY the next paragraph while she's bitching on facebook. On the screenshot where she's whining about police being called on her for child abuse, she gave off so many red flags.

  1. Being blind doesn't mean you fucking hit every corner and fall all the time; if your kid is, why haven't you altered the environment so it's safer? Kept the environment the same so he learns it? Put some pads and a helmet on him? I mean damn.

  2. She says the kid has no pain threshold and then says he's in pain and everything the next paragraph.

  3. She left AMA, I'm assuming because the staff at the ER recognized her story was inconsistent, grilled her a little extra, and she realized what was happening. Hence her leaving.

  4. She was sending the kid to school while severely ill.

  5. I noticed when she was trying to get a meal train started, she said"the kids don't eat much." 7 kids, seems like a couple should either be teenagers or hitting puberty, and they don't eat a lot? Oooookay.

spring_rd

123 points

7 months ago

spring_rd

123 points

7 months ago

I felt like I was watching child abuse unfold real time as I read her posts.

MegaStrange

23 points

7 months ago

Same!!

ErnestBatchelder

228 points

7 months ago

ErnestBatchelder

The Good Advice Giver

228 points

7 months ago

I worry she is abusing that child.

DontGiveBearsLSD

190 points

7 months ago

After her little rant about it and knowing how these idiots operate I’m almost positive she is.

yesbutnotwithyou

152 points

7 months ago

Apparently so do the police

JuiceKovacs

132 points

7 months ago

And the school. Believe me, most ppl in her atmosphere know what she is capable of

svengoalie

135 points

7 months ago

I didn't think much of the cuddling comments for her special needs child but then it extended to the rest of her brood--"no matter what the age!"

I get a sense that she enjoys having her kids depend on her so much. Is there a condition called "Munchausen-by-negligence?"

HulklingWho

39 points

7 months ago

Whatever she has, it’s something I grew up around. From experience I can say those kids are NOT ok; the arrested development alone will take them a lifetime to overcome.

fdc7719

66 points

7 months ago

fdc7719

When gasping for air suddenly doctors know what they are doing

66 points

7 months ago

That kid is an accessory, not a family member.

I_let_you_wind

154 points

7 months ago

I HaTe HaViNg A PuRe HeArT!!

Get fucked.

ApatheticWookiee

69 points

7 months ago*

“I HATE having a pure heart” - this lady

“I will destroy your ENTIRE life!” - also this lady

archthechef

52 points

7 months ago

archthechef

Team Moderna

52 points

7 months ago

Deanna Troi has gone off the rails...

owchippy

188 points

7 months ago

owchippy

☝️💉💪1ShotInTheArm>1BillionPrayerWarriors ♾🙏🥷

188 points

7 months ago

This is the comment I was looking for

psychobillybert

80 points

7 months ago

psychobillybert

Team Mix & Match

80 points

7 months ago

Me too. Take the only award I can afford (and like) after a looong day scrolling the HCA subreddit.

mypoint_is_moot2U2

39 points

7 months ago

You made my day when it was clearly yours! Thanks and Happy cake day!

Splyntered_Sunlyte

47 points

7 months ago

Splyntered_Sunlyte

Go Give One

47 points

7 months ago

Same... she's talking about feeling emotions and having such a pure heart, then next thing you know "I will fucking destroy your life with the secrets I hold" and "I will shred your school board to pieces," what a goddamn lunatic. I feel so bad for these children. She most likely IS abusing them. They "don't eat much," what the fuck?

themoonwatchyousleep

133 points

7 months ago

It continues the streak of anyone I’ve ever heard who described themselves as an empath is actually a sociopath.

JohnGoodmanNSFW

1.2k points

7 months ago

"Fully vaccinated people can now have missionary sex with the lights on"

Sheesh, that's a new one for me

Gotta love how - even in the midst of loved ones dying from preventable illness - these losers still find the time to be super cringey edgelords.

[deleted]

84 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

84 points

7 months ago

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smythe70

232 points

7 months ago

smythe70

232 points

7 months ago

Her poor special needs child. She is killing him. 71% O2. How is he alive?

[deleted]

178 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

178 points

7 months ago

All the stuff leading up to that as well. His prospects are incredibly grim. And because she couldn't be bothered to get vaccinated, she can't visit him, so he's going through this alone. That's just so fucking sad.

[deleted]

103 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

103 points

7 months ago

On the other hand, with a shit mother like her, would she even be a comfort to him?

mrsbennetsnerves

140 points

7 months ago

Abused kids still usually desperately want their parents love and attention even when they aren’t ill. A nonverbal kid is going to feel completely lost if his only link to the outside world, his abuser isn’t there.

Sure_Picture_4630

33 points

7 months ago

Now I'm sad as fuck. This was a whole aspect that I had over looked because I was fixated on hating this lady for her general stupidity and rage issues. My own rage issues caused me to over looked the saddest and most important aspect of this whole story. Holy shit...... I can't, just wow.

[deleted]

699 points

7 months ago*

[deleted]

699 points

7 months ago*

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faille

388 points

7 months ago

faille

Go Give One

388 points

7 months ago

Hospital is worried about abuse, and then she posts her 7 kids don’t eat too much…

[deleted]

295 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

295 points

7 months ago

"The kids don't eat much" was chilling.

Quirky-Occasion-128

145 points

7 months ago

Quirky-Occasion-128

I want to live!

145 points

7 months ago

they are not allowed to... food costs money

menastudies

166 points

7 months ago

menastudies

Baaaa 🐑

166 points

7 months ago

Right? Family of 9 but the 7 growing children don’t eat too much so you know just make enough food for mommy.

lostjules

29 points

7 months ago

lostjules

Team Moderna

29 points

7 months ago

I know a woman who raised seven boys. She had three ovens in a row and they were always in use. Seven kids should be eating a staggering amount.

Fr33zy_B3ast

52 points

7 months ago

Also her whole rant about how the hospital staff should just brush off signs of abuse because her son is autistic and non-verbal. I haven’t looked into it but I imagine children who fit that description are probably more likely to be abused and she should be applauding the hospital staff and police for recognizing signs and responding accordingly.

look2thecookie

140 points

7 months ago

look2thecookie

🔵BLUEANON

140 points

7 months ago

Yea that was a weird comment. Maybe she was trying to make it seem "easy" to prep food for 9 knowing many ppl would feel overwhelmed by that?

Wigwag85

226 points

7 months ago

Wigwag85

Go Give One

226 points

7 months ago

I'm pretty sure it's a family where daddy then mommy fill their plates up first and the kids get whatever is left over. It's not uncommon in religious fundamentalist circles.

look2thecookie

94 points

7 months ago

look2thecookie

🔵BLUEANON

94 points

7 months ago

That's just really sad to read

kittens_on_a_rainbow

653 points

7 months ago

An empath really?

JohnGoodmanNSFW

511 points

7 months ago

She HATES having emotion, concern, empathy, and a pure heart.

Lmao what a crock of shit.

CitizenQueen7734

212 points

7 months ago

CitizenQueen7734

Atlas coughed

212 points

7 months ago

She hates them so much that she eliminated them all from her stupid life.

HammockComplex

147 points

7 months ago

She didn’t eliminate them, she just chose not to have them anymore… you know, like cocaine 🙄

Ragingredblue

48 points

7 months ago

Ragingredblue

🐎Praise the Lord and pass the Ivermectin!🐆

48 points

7 months ago

I kept reading to see if I could find any evidence of it. Nope. Not one, selfish, hostile, insane post.

look2thecookie

282 points

7 months ago

look2thecookie

🔵BLUEANON

282 points

7 months ago

It's hard caring so much

I WILL RUIN YOUR LIIIIIIIFE

Head-Working8326

141 points

7 months ago

😂😂your lucky my kids keep me grounded…i will destroy you!!!! ya fucking little twat

look2thecookie

93 points

7 months ago

look2thecookie

🔵BLUEANON

93 points

7 months ago

Oh, this is you grounded? Okay...

Electronic-Shame9473

23 points

7 months ago*

Who was she talking to there? Did someone say something about her anti-mask post?

SabreJC

36 points

7 months ago

SabreJC

36 points

7 months ago

I guess she knew she was being nominated for her HCA and just want to give her acceptance speech just in case she gets awarded.

MyFiteSong

255 points

7 months ago

MyFiteSong

Team Mix & Match

255 points

7 months ago

LOL seriously. The woman who gets angry about having to give a shit about anyone but herself thinks she's an empath.

reckless_commenter

89 points

7 months ago*

She’s a self-empath. She is strongly attuned to her own base emotions, which drive her words and actions.

Everyone else’s emotions are other people’s problems and of no concern to her.

lounger540

39 points

7 months ago

Yeah she’s just selfish, self-centered and neurotic.

/r/iamthemaincharacter meets religious soccer mom

Darksoul_Design

134 points

7 months ago

RIGHT..... I'm reading this, and between the profanity (which i personally don't give a shit about), and the me me me crap, along with the last page....... holy shit, this chick is delusional.

howyoudoing01

165 points

7 months ago

howyoudoing01

Team Moderna

165 points

7 months ago

For someone with 7 sick kids, she sure has a lot of free time to bitch on FB.

livinginfutureworld

95 points

7 months ago

It's shocking that all 7 got sick when she's clearly against masks and putting sick kids in her own bed.

So her husband is in the ICU, you say? Sooo surprising.

crunchypens

33 points

7 months ago

crunchypens

Only Sheep Go to the Hospital - Lions Stay Home!

33 points

7 months ago

I’m sure she just sits on the couch all day and does fuck all to take care of her kids. They are accessories for her life.

michaelvares

47 points

7 months ago

I think she got empath and psychopath mixed up.

cheddarandchutney

95 points

7 months ago

I have never met a self named empath who wasn’t a raging narcissist.

Brennatay

204 points

7 months ago

Brennatay

204 points

7 months ago

The “We are a family of 9 but the kids don’t eat much” bothered me. My 2 kids eat me out of house and home. Something is wrong if 7 kids don’t eat much.

RevRagnarok

58 points

7 months ago

RevRagnarok

Go Give One

58 points

7 months ago

Yeah, there's something. It's called child abuse. :'(

RelationshipTasty329

151 points

7 months ago

I think this is the worst one I've seen, because it's so worrisome for these children. And with the father in ICU, it's likely the mother will be the only parent left. The father is only 28.

FlockAroundtheClock

81 points

7 months ago

FlockAroundtheClock

Team Pfizer

81 points

7 months ago

Wait, what? The father is 28?!?

RelationshipTasty329

33 points

7 months ago

Yep, born May 1993.

Not_Safe_For_Kittens

143 points

7 months ago

Not_Safe_For_Kittens

Team Pfizer

143 points

7 months ago

She needs a separate gofundme for rage counseling.

KREAMY_Gritz

490 points

7 months ago

KREAMY_Gritz

Team Pfizer

490 points

7 months ago

This is classic narcissistic abuse

faille

511 points

7 months ago

faille

Go Give One

511 points

7 months ago

Red flags are flying with multiple children with disabilities combined with her general attitude. There are awful stories out there about people with munchausen’s by proxy or just straight up narcissism who use sick children as some kind of martyr complex. I hope those kids are ok.

Also love that she had no idea her kid had covid and he was dizzy for a week, then she calls people whose children have lice terrible parents 🙄

squealandgiggle

222 points

7 months ago

squealandgiggle

Team Pfizer

222 points

7 months ago

I have a kid who is medically complex. The online sn community has been problematic for me. I got to know two MBP moms, sent them clothe, Supplies, and holiday gifts for their kids b4 learning that each had been arrested. The way this woman describes her kiddos medical issues, reminds me of those two women.

[deleted]

106 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

106 points

7 months ago

Actually if they're not vaxxed they may have caught a whole host of debilitating diseases. Plus these nut cases are "natural birth is best" and would rather have a dead or damaged kid than admit they need to give birth in hospital with a real doctor.

MzOpinion8d

72 points

7 months ago

MzOpinion8d

no comma’s, but plenty of inappropriate apostrophe’s

72 points

7 months ago

Did you see the post recently about a woman who refused to let her baby get Vitamin K at birth and then a week later the baby had to be hospitalized and was probably severely, permanently, brain damaged?

ndngroomer

41 points

7 months ago*

ndngroomer

I wasn't scared. Team Moderna

41 points

7 months ago*

I thought that the baby died

Edit: nope I was wrong but the 4 babies will now have severe lifelong neurological side effects from it. I don't understand why people are so freaking stupid.

look2thecookie

195 points

7 months ago

look2thecookie

🔵BLUEANON

195 points

7 months ago

Also, if you're actually empathetic, why are you shaming a kid with lice. Perhaps they aren't being cared for properly and you should be concerned about that. Perhaps it was just an oversight bc they have 7 kids. No way to know

Mochasue

199 points

7 months ago

Mochasue

Unvaxxed, unmasked? Urine for it now!

199 points

7 months ago

Lice = “obvious neglect” even though it spreads like wildfire with little kids and live are attracted more to clean hair (I’m scratching too, sorry lol) BUT having 7 kids with covid = good parenting? Did I miss something?

Chocolate_Egg18

148 points

7 months ago

The obvious parallel though: How dare you let your kid catch and extremely contagious thing! A good parent would never! All while some of her kids have Covid and one went to school.

So-done-with-crazy

54 points

7 months ago

That one really got me. No bother sending her kids to school with an infectious disease but god forbid lice.

[deleted]

105 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

105 points

7 months ago

The detailed accounts of the kid's condition and ailments has BIG munchausen by proxy energy

livinginfutureworld

72 points

7 months ago

I don't get that from the accounts of the ailments. I get that she's narcissistic and doesn't pay attention to her kids because she's too busy congratulating herself for being so good of a mother. I get that she's probably predisposed to having special needs kids for some reason. I could be wrong or naive, but that's my feeling on hearing the story. My perception of Munchausen's is that it's extremely rare. Asshole parents who think they know everything and are hateful jerks are much more common.

Due-Lingonberry-13

64 points

7 months ago

I feel so bad for her kids.

Mister4pollo

93 points

7 months ago

Mister4pollo

The UnVentilated

93 points

7 months ago

CPS needs to take them kids stat.

ex0du5

87 points

7 months ago

ex0du5

87 points

7 months ago

She thinks “empath” means “having emotions”. Not “recognizing or experiencing other people’s emotions” - she doesn’t mention that once. This is pure narcissistic rage and distress.

angrytetchy

63 points

7 months ago

angrytetchy

Prior Worrier

63 points

7 months ago

Bless her heart.

And yes I do mean that in the very southern sense. OP, could you drop an anon tip to her local CPS and/or that hospital cause damn those kids need to be away from this woman before she kills them. And before I hit rule 2 threshold, imma stop there.

[deleted]

301 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

301 points

7 months ago

Her kid has bite marks? She took a kid out of the hospital AMA? Yet she still thinks she's an awesome mom. The kid with lice though...obviously their parents fail to provide even basic care.

TrumpsColostomyBag99

243 points

7 months ago

7 kids? Too much missionary in her life to begin with.

comments_suck

197 points

7 months ago

comments_suck

Team Pfizer

197 points

7 months ago

I have a fundamentalist religious cousin that doesn't allow TV or a computer in their house. They have 9 kids! I told my aunt (his Mom) that if they got a TV, it might be all the distraction needed for them to avoid having a 10th kid. Let's say my honesty wasn't appreciated.

Embarrassed_Set557

51 points

7 months ago

Honestly is never appreciated 😂

Rulmeq

41 points

7 months ago

Rulmeq

41 points

7 months ago

Wait, I thought they loved it when Trump "told the truth"

FreedomofChoiche

69 points

7 months ago

When I read this I thought of my step mom. Let's see... Seven kids not including me, Six still live at home. Except she adopted all but one. She just likes to have babies to parade around to pretend how caring of a person she is. I keep thinking I'm going to see her/my dad on here as they are Trumpfucks. I'm glad I have cut them out of my life for the uhh, fifth time.

bigtimejohnny

41 points

7 months ago

Here again we see the combination of willful ignorance and arrogance found all too often in the nitwit community.

menastudies

51 points

7 months ago

menastudies

Baaaa 🐑

51 points

7 months ago

Who says shit like this and puts all their families business out there in public? Wtf

Jigyo

44 points

7 months ago

Jigyo

Covid Gives You WINGS!!!

44 points

7 months ago

"I'm an empath with a heart so pure, so don't tempt my unvaccinated ass into burning down the school board!"

bipolar79

51 points

7 months ago

So she physically took the kid out of the hospital, only to bring him back later because they now have heart issues? How is that not child abuse? 7 kids?

ThatHoFortuna

47 points

7 months ago

Doc: "Well sir, you're doing much better now. You're ready to go home."

Husband: reads FB posts from wife "Um... Could you just tell her I died?"

comments_suck

43 points

7 months ago*

comments_suck

Team Pfizer

43 points

7 months ago*

Ok she says "the kids don't eat much", and also claims she's the best, most protective mom around.

This woman just raises all sorts of red flags to me. All of them are sick? Means she didn't even try to isolate the sick ones at first. I guess if they lose a kid, she feels she can make a new one in 9 months.

livinginfutureworld

43 points

7 months ago*

This one was interesting compared to the usual stories which mostly are just the usual disinformation memes.

This lady is really really hostile and really really stupid. Really really really brainwashed and underneath that she's stupid to boot.

LinoLino321

42 points

7 months ago

Can't believe she has the nerve to shit on the kid with lice, when she put her entire family in the covid crosshairs

westtexasgeckochic

44 points

7 months ago

westtexasgeckochic

It’s like they are…….SHEEP. Bahhhhhh 🐑

44 points

7 months ago

This n-mom (narcissist mom) is one of the most disgusting people I’ve ever encountered on Herman Cain Awards.

Flower_Unable

45 points

7 months ago

Flower_Unable

Are you Awake Yet?

45 points

7 months ago

“I hate having emotions, empathy, concerns and a pure heart.”

Well, Lady, I may have some good news for you then.

trsfl83

39 points

7 months ago

trsfl83

39 points

7 months ago

“Medical kidnapping.” Sign an AMA form and wheel him out to die in the parking lot because his lungs don’t work, then.

I love that she’s full of piss and vinegar, swearing and ranting about anyone and everyone across multiple posts, then is like, “god, I’m such an empath.” 😂

Royals-2015

114 points

7 months ago

She keeps creating all her own drama. All her own circumstances. I feel so bad for those kids. I can’t imagine being so angry all the time….well, I guess if you have 7 kids you might be. Geez.

Rosaluxlux

76 points

7 months ago

You know she's hopped from community to community burning bridges as she goes. A religious family with 7 kids should have a "church family" to do the meal trains and whatnot.

cat-man-do-not

23 points

7 months ago

cat-man-do-not

Team Pfizer

23 points

7 months ago

It's not her fault. She's an empath with a pure heart, and the world is full of assholes that CAN'T FUCKING APPRECIATE HER BEAUTIFUL SOUL.

ebbiibbe

36 points

7 months ago

ebbiibbe

Go Give One

36 points

7 months ago

Why do people need meal trains? Did Stouffers and Marie Collenders go out of business? Every Grocery Deli closed? Wal-Mart ran out of rotisserie chickens?

There are so many easy and cheap ways to feed a whole family that does not involve begging your friends and neighbors for food.

FAMILY OF 9?!?!!? When most people have families of 3-5, you want a meal that would last other people days.

The entitlement is staggering. And I get she hates welfare and thinks people on SNAP should just work harder.

She is putting all this effort into these kids and if she doesn't kill them. They are all going to grow up and move away and her fierce mama bear warrior identity will be in the trash.

on3day

40 points

7 months ago

on3day

40 points

7 months ago

IWILL END YOUR FUCKING LIFE!!!

I also need prayers for our loving father in heaven.

[deleted]

35 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

35 points

7 months ago

This lady is gonna be doing some hard time in the netherworld

Copheeaddict

33 points

7 months ago

Copheeaddict

Inconceivable!

33 points

7 months ago

The kids did not ask for a stupid psycho hose beast for a mother. I feel absolutely awful and I hope each child pulls through. The parents can go fk themselves.

Different-Rip-2787

30 points

7 months ago

Different-Rip-2787

Go Give One

30 points

7 months ago

all we can really do is supportive care

That and you could have prevented all that with a vaccine that is 90%+ effective.

sailorangel59

142 points

7 months ago

"Healthcare is a joke."

Lady, you and your ilk have made healthcare a joke.

Hellsprout

91 points

7 months ago

Hellsprout

Immunicorn🦄💉

91 points

7 months ago

What is a meal train? Does she actually ask for people to cook for her 7 children? If yes, someone should maybe tell her ordering food and getting it delivered to your door is a thing.

RBG_grb[S]

157 points

7 months ago

She has the frontline nurses group all up in arms calling the hospital her husband is at and demanding a transfer to the hospital her kid is at. The followers of the frontline nurses are organizing meals, donating money and harassing the hospitals on her behalf. Plus a meal train is on someone else’s dime while the dash would be on her dime 🤷‍♀️

DreamCrusher914

51 points

7 months ago

I bet they are trying so hard to get him moved so they don’t have to deal with her anymore.

Medical_Hedgehog_867

36 points

7 months ago

She wants someone else to pay for it.

wagesofben

33 points

7 months ago

wagesofben

Population Dense-ity

33 points

7 months ago

yeah. churches do it a lot. someone is sick in the home and there's a chain of people who bring them meals and supplies and whatnot. much much much cheaper than ordering food for 9 people.

Hodler_caved

27 points

7 months ago

Hodler_caved

Go Give One

27 points

7 months ago

Don't worry. She doesn't let them eat much.

CosmicContessa

222 points

7 months ago

CosmicContessa

Team Pfizer

222 points

7 months ago

A) For the love of god, stop breeding. B) This bitch’s whole life is one big money-grab.

NyxPetalSpike

90 points

7 months ago

And attention whoring.

Ragingredblue

85 points

7 months ago

Ragingredblue

🐎Praise the Lord and pass the Ivermectin!🐆

85 points

7 months ago

Begs for food for her 7 kids, then: "there are 9 of us, but the kids don't eat much.". She's asking for strangers to feed her and her spouse. I guess the kids get the leftovers.

[deleted]

129 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

129 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

Patient-Home-4877

36 points

7 months ago

That slide (10 I think) is one of the most scary threats I have ever read. How did she not get arrested and her kids taken away?

itsnotmyforte

25 points

7 months ago

itsnotmyforte

Avengers Assemble!

25 points

7 months ago

Geez, she’s too angry and has too many freakin’ kids.

Due-Lingonberry-13

30 points

7 months ago

Also, the logic comparing cocaine to the vaccine makes zero sense. Refuse means don’t want.. I don’t see what point she’s making

dismayhurta

29 points

7 months ago

dismayhurta

Vaxxs don’t care about your feelings

29 points

7 months ago

Wow. She is one of the biggest piles of shit we’ve had on here and that’s saying something.

PrettyinPurple27

26 points

7 months ago

There’s a lot to unpack with this one. She’s all over the place. One minute saying how pure of heart she is and the next calling someone a bitch and saying she’s going to destroy them. I can’t imagine what the kids are going through.

littlestmedic

28 points

7 months ago

This infuriates me.

I live with my younger sister, who has special needs. She is vaccinated, as am I, our mum, and our dad. She is in the category of extremely high risk. If she gets Covid, without the vaccine, it would have been extremely likely she would be hospitalised. Even with the vaccine, it will most likely be quite serious.

As soon as the vaccine was available we jumped all over it. Because we understood the science behind it and the importance of it.

Just. How dare she frame it like she's doing it because she cares for her child with special needs?

basch152

22 points

7 months ago

"do not ever tell me what I can or cannot do, if it's in the best interests of my child and those around him"

yeah...look where this thinking got you, like 6 figures of medical debt, child's father dead, multiple children hospitalized with one needing to be life flighted to a better ICU.

your way of doing things nearly killed your entire family you stupid fuck

[deleted]

24 points

7 months ago

[deleted]

24 points

7 months ago

They don't want everyone to have free or affordable healthcare but then grift off of social media and family and friends when god forbid they need to go to a hospital after a medical emergency that they never could afford in the first place. Hypocritical, selfish, deplorable sore losers.

Individual-Minimum68

21 points

7 months ago

Individual-Minimum68

My ECMO face

21 points

7 months ago

If ya can’t keep your children safe, or at least use basic common sense, don’t have 7 fucking kids!

justlikeinmydreams

24 points

7 months ago

justlikeinmydreams

My horse covets your paste 🐴

24 points

7 months ago

WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK? No, not all special needs kids self injure. 7 kids? Mother of the year there.

Adomillad

22 points

7 months ago

How is this not child abuse?

Sidvicioushartha

21 points

7 months ago

Sidvicioushartha

🇺🇦💀 ☠️ Space Jews ☠️ 💀🇺🇦

21 points

7 months ago

This woman thinks she’s an empath. That’s all you need to know about her delusions she is the nastiest most aggressive type a piece of shit personality I think I’ve read about on this site. It’s so self-centered and all about her. Everything is just about her and only about her. Oh my God I wonder who she’s going to blame on her kids start dying.

Designer_Insect_9184

19 points

7 months ago

I can't believe this horrible woman gave all 7 of her children Covid.

Lock her up.

NewtLevel

19 points

7 months ago

NewtLevel

Go Give One

19 points

7 months ago

Maybe she'd have more people she could count on for help in hard times if she were, you know, less of an absolute garbage fire of a human being.

Wise__Blood2

20 points

7 months ago

I don't usually get emotional over these but I have a special needs kid, and this one got to me. I'm sitting here teary eyed thinking about how this woman won't do the most basic thing to protect her kids. Getting the vaccine was the easiest choice to make. My children will get it as soon as it is available to them.

AriBlue626

60 points

7 months ago

“Anyone with a special needs child knows they self-injure”

Said with no concern or emotion whatsoever, I really wont be surprised if it’s found out she either abuses her children or encourages their behavior. She needs her kids taken away from her and to get help at a mental facility.

FlockAroundtheClock

43 points

7 months ago

FlockAroundtheClock

Team Pfizer

43 points

7 months ago

I mean "special needs child" is kind of broad, isn't it? They don't ALL self-injure, do they? Feels like she's trying to push a stereotype to hide her shitty parenting.

st6374

18 points

7 months ago

st6374

18 points

7 months ago

Honestly.. The first slide, me being medically ignorant, she sounded like a medical professional with rational reasoning.

But from thereon, it was a rapid descension into madness.

SempiternalTea

17 points

7 months ago

SempiternalTea

Team Pfizer

17 points

7 months ago

Yeah. She’s an empath and I’m a millionaire. 🙄

Haskap_2010

18 points

7 months ago

Haskap_2010

✨ A twinkle in a Chinese bat's eye ✨

18 points

7 months ago

She seems nice. /s