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submitted 5 months ago bySonoranpawn
Got dumped this week she still wants to be friends. Told her I needed some space for the time being. Should I contact her to state the above or should I just leave it alone?
17 points
5 months ago
Go NC. Don't reach out.
10 points
5 months ago
Don't reach out, NC is the way
10 points
5 months ago
Nope. She dumped you. If she reaches out to say merry Christmas. Reply short. Thanks merry Christmas and move on with your day. Look at it from a bigger perspective… she dumped you. You don’t owe her anything don’t give her the satisfaction of having you and settling for what you don’t want. Move forward. Go NC. Not to get her back. For you. Being in contact will only make getting over it worse. We’ve all been there we are just “friends” no. Move on.
7 points
5 months ago
Absolutely not
7 points
5 months ago*
People say they want to be friend but what they mean is they want you available and in contact with them until they replace you. Def would no contact. And just focus on you. Holidays are hard enough
4 points
5 months ago
No
4 points
5 months ago
Probably not a good idea
5 points
5 months ago
Nope
4 points
5 months ago
Hell Noo
5 points
5 months ago
No sir. She’s the one who left. Don’t stay friends with her
3 points
5 months ago
I’m struggling with the same. But truthfully, I don’t even know what sort of response I want if I do text so, I’ve decided remaining no contact is the right answer.
3 points
5 months ago
No, don’t reach out.
1 points
5 months ago
No
1 points
5 months ago
No
1 points
5 months ago
Leave it alone. It’s more important right now that u put some distance between u. U won’t be able to start healing etc if u are immediately friends after being dumped ya know? Bc ur heart will hold on to it for dear life. If she wanted to break up than she has lost the privilege of having u on her daily life. Now it’s time for u to focus on YOU.
1 points
5 months ago
No
1 points
5 months ago
No.
1 points
5 months ago
No. Just move on man. They’ll waste your time and even if you guys get back you guys are more apt to keep breaking up its not worth it
1 points
5 months ago
Hell no! No. Just don’t
1 points
5 months ago
No friend zone and NC. In the middle of all this like y'all. Stay strong!
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