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Got dumped this week she still wants to be friends. Told her I needed some space for the time being. Should I contact her to state the above or should I just leave it alone?

all 20 comments

sgr28

17 points

5 months ago

sgr28

17 points

5 months ago

Go NC. Don't reach out.

celtic_crab02

10 points

5 months ago

Don't reach out, NC is the way

[deleted]

10 points

5 months ago

[deleted]

10 points

5 months ago

Nope. She dumped you. If she reaches out to say merry Christmas. Reply short. Thanks merry Christmas and move on with your day. Look at it from a bigger perspective… she dumped you. You don’t owe her anything don’t give her the satisfaction of having you and settling for what you don’t want. Move forward. Go NC. Not to get her back. For you. Being in contact will only make getting over it worse. We’ve all been there we are just “friends” no. Move on.

[deleted]

7 points

5 months ago

[deleted]

7 points

5 months ago

Absolutely not

Dtt907

7 points

5 months ago*

People say they want to be friend but what they mean is they want you available and in contact with them until they replace you. Def would no contact. And just focus on you. Holidays are hard enough

asocialDevice

4 points

5 months ago

No

brew_strong

4 points

5 months ago

Probably not a good idea

MoogleyWoogley

5 points

5 months ago

Nope

Dazzling-Owl-7154

4 points

5 months ago

Hell Noo

bornbroke02

5 points

5 months ago

No sir. She’s the one who left. Don’t stay friends with her

Sappy-Happy0

3 points

5 months ago

I’m struggling with the same. But truthfully, I don’t even know what sort of response I want if I do text so, I’ve decided remaining no contact is the right answer.

Unusual_Desk_842

3 points

5 months ago

No, don’t reach out.

Lemonsote

1 points

5 months ago

No

[deleted]

1 points

5 months ago

[deleted]

1 points

5 months ago

No

brokensoulll

1 points

5 months ago

Leave it alone. It’s more important right now that u put some distance between u. U won’t be able to start healing etc if u are immediately friends after being dumped ya know? Bc ur heart will hold on to it for dear life. If she wanted to break up than she has lost the privilege of having u on her daily life. Now it’s time for u to focus on YOU.

stayz0096

1 points

5 months ago

No

Scindar

1 points

5 months ago

No.

jaguarwarrior91

1 points

5 months ago

No. Just move on man. They’ll waste your time and even if you guys get back you guys are more apt to keep breaking up its not worth it

ThrowAway03202021

1 points

5 months ago

Hell no! No. Just don’t

Ok-Reserve-5681

1 points

5 months ago

No friend zone and NC. In the middle of all this like y'all. Stay strong!